What is the Inner Bitch Way to Intimacy? It's pretty simple:

1. You'll be free to be yourself in the most intimate relationship in your life.
2. You'll be getting what you want and need from your relationship.
3. 3. You won't exhaust yourself wasting time on prospective relationships that are actually romantic cul-de-sacs.
4. 4. You'll be more comfortable with your romantic situation, no matter what it is.

In other words, the odds of having a successful relationship are better if you try it this way. Which means that any relationship you have will enhance your life. You'll feel happy, content, and secure; your chances of getting what you want and need from your relationship will be better; you'll feel connected to the other person; and even though you know you can live without him, you'd really rather not!