Well, this book makes my day so far Though I haven't finished the whole episode coz just have the trial audio for like a couple of minutes. I loved it! As I wanted to work out my relationship with my husband as a married couple. There's a lot of realization while hearing every single pointer of the article. A lot of lessons to be learned aside from the things I thought were right. I wish I could have the whole episode of this book. I believed this would help me for so many reasons. All I wanted for a long time now is to have a good relationship with my husband and a happy family with our kids.
The significance of the theories of Tatkin can not be understated. I'm deeply moved by the fictional dialogues in the book because I can relate so much to the ineffective communication between "islands" and "waves" (Tatkins uncharged labels for avoidant and preoccupied attachment styles). I am pretty sure that those couples who work this book, or even if just one member of a couple does, the health of their relationship (and the individuals and in extension the entire society, as stated in the foreword) will greatly improve. I wish I was pointed in this direction years ago.
Great book! I enjoyed every bit of it. Learned a lot and I feel happy about it to be honest. Refreshes the mind and expands one’s horizons