Amazing book! Very insightful and it has definitly made my relationship so much stronger!
So practical and insightful. I’m going to re read this because I’m sure I can glean more the second time through.
Everything is fine until about an hour from the end where the author makes it perfectly clear that if a parent sexually abuses their child, that the child should apologize and forgive the parent. WTF?!?!?!
This is a fantastic book for couples who truly want to work it out. This does not mean to agree that huge mistakes have been made and then put that down without actually doing the true work. it is not up to you to decide how much effort should fix when you have hurt your spouse or partner, that is for them to decide. All you can do is do the work no matter how long it takes based on how long then actions or inactions occurred.
It amazing. Eye opening....